A simple technique to get back with my ex
Posted on May 13, 2008
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Is there a “magic” method to get my ex back, you ask? It may be hard to believe, but yes, there are words and techniques that will cast a spell and make your ex want to call you back. How cool is that? I am going to show you how to do this because it is one of the most frequently asked question from my suscribers that want to know: how to get my ex back.
“How to get my ex back” will start with getting your ex to return your phone call, IM or text message. Remember, this can be done easily, but it’s just a simple formula and not a complete plan. You can learn more about that in our ebook. If you do this right, it will be the begining of a wonderfull get back together with your ex.
Let’s start whit What NOT to Say. These are the usual mistakes people make, so don’t fall for them. Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works. and worse, Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.These usually fall into 2 categories.
PLEAD. You get in the phone for the 10th time in the day and say “hi, please, please call me, I need to talk to you. I’ve called all day and haven’t got an answer form you”. Of course you are not going to get an answer! With this kind of call, you are only going to get pity, and pity will not help you get your ex back.
The Emergency call: “Hi, I have an emergency and I need you. Please call me”. Your ex will know this is just a lie to get her/him to call you back, and maybe you will get a the call, but this dirty trick will only work once, and to your disadvantage at that. Liying doesn’t help, believe me.
AS you see, these will not do. You don’t want to be a liar nor be pitied by your ex. Instead, lets review a simple method to get your ex back on the phone.
Using curiosity and selft interest in your favor. The things humans can’t avoid are curiosity and self interest. This are powerful forces everybody reacts too. The big secret? combine the two and you will get a formula that works everytime!
In a friendly tone: “Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.” Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. this is a call that is going to be returned.
Now, Before you call you need to do the “Set Up”, which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing, but needs to be plausible. Think about the times you spent togheter, when she/he pointed something about you, or gave you an advice or maybe let you talk when you needed it most. Surely there are some good things you can think about. But more importantly, Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out BEFORE you call. If you don’t, you will get the call back, and date with your ex, but no more than that and you will be back to square one.
With this simple method, you will have your ex calling you, but is only a part of a larger strategy. If you really want to get your ex back, you have to have a plan. You now can have a call and maybe a date. Now you have to work to get your ex back.
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